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Mediation is an informal voluntary
process. The mediator role is neutral and
impartial assisting the parties in discussing their
situation and reaching a mutual agreeable resolution
that will be effective and practical for everyone
involved. During mediation, all parties have the
opportunity to discuss their viewpoint, brainstorm
possible solutions, with the aim of seeking mutually
agreeable resolution that is put into writing.
Mediation is founded on the principle of
self-determination, meaning, “You are the best person to make
decisions that tell you what to do”- often great in theory,
however this belief system is put to the test when facing a
painful divorce. One of the many benefits of mediation is
creativity and flexibility in designing an outcome. The process
is voluntary and confidential with a goal of resolution that
meets the needs of all involved. The number of sessions needed
depends on the issues needing resolution. If your conflict
stems from a lawsuit, it is advisable for you to be informed of
your legal rights and responsibilities and possible court
outcomes.
I provide structure and co-create ground
rules to build a container of safety, empathy, and empowerment.
I seek to fully understand each position, empower each to speak
what’s most important to them, and what values underlie each
position. My aim is to bring “to the table” energy that assists
in the prevention of adversarial damage, while empowering the
parties to fully understand the magnitude and implications of
their decisions.
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